As a single senior, you are probably aware that dating at this age is typically very different than when you were in your 20s or 30s. Here are some of the most common mistakes that senior singles make when dating after 60.

• You can’t take a break on the first date and resume things one week later (or even a month later) because now your online profile has to compete with hundreds of other profiles for attention.

• An older man’s wealth might be an attraction to a younger woman, but it doesn’t mean that he wants to live with her eventually – she is more likely looking for someone who can support her financially and care for her as she ages.

• You’ll probably be spending more money on dates than you were in your 20s and 30s, so be prepared.

• It can be hard to ask for what you want if you are not comfortable asking for help. You may find yourself being taken advantage of because of your lack of assertiveness.

• Some men will have a hard time concealing their feelings for a younger woman if they believe she is attracted to the younger man, so expect lots of jealousy and smothering behavior from them. Be prepared!

• If you are serious about finding love again after 60, it will take some work to find the right kind of partner that is mutually compatible.

• You will probably have to work even harder if you are married since you usually are the higher income earner in marriage and most likely have more investment or real estate assets.

• Don’t let your feelings for another person interfere with your desire to find love again after 60. If you want to date after 60, be ready to make a commitment that involves meeting other people without your old lover being involved.

• If your ex has children, he might put up some serious roadblocks if he thinks that another man is interested in you. Just be prepared for this possibility.

• If your ex has been in love with you for a long time, he may feel that he is the only one who can truly make you happy – think about this if you are thinking about rekindling your old flame.

• You will definitely have to deal with the fact that life expectancy is increasing, so all of the seniors will be living longer and longer. You might begin to feel like you’re in competition with other seniors to find a mate, but don’t let this feeling get in your way of enjoying yourself and finding someone special.

• You might also have to deal with a flood of new sexual diseases and infections, so be sure you go to the doctor for regular checkups.

• If you are concerned about health issues, keep in mind that some people are drawn to others who are in ill health because it allows them to care for another person and feel valuable. You might want to be careful with this type of behavior if you are looking for love after 60.

• Your physical appearance will not matter as much as it did when you were younger – the older woman is more likely to be sexually attractive than the older man. You’ll also find out that some men prefer women who look their age.